Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
http://yoursacredcalling.com/blog/2011/02/how-to-tear-down-your-own-house/
Discourage and hinder him from following the dreams God’s given him and do not support them, sabotage it even, especially when they bring personal risk (Genesis 2:18)
Refuse to submit to your husband (Ephesians 5:22-24 (5:25-33); Colossians 3:18)
Use your tongue as a weapon; insult, mock him as it makes him feel so valued and appreciated (It’s your best asset!)
Share your husband’s failings with others (his friends, your mother, and anyone else who cares to listen)
Be unfaithful & untrustworthy, betray him continuously (Prov. 31:11-12)
Gossip about your family
Be careless and sloppy about your appearance
Be lazy and carelessly spend money
Be covetous of what others have
Disrespect your husband to your children
Be hyper critical of your husband and children & nag them constantly (men love this!)
Ignore the housework (come up with creative excuses for undone work…”The dog ate my cookbook”)
Watch soap operas and fantasize about how much kinder, attentive, and romantic other husbands are
Make your husband “earn” his times of intimacy with you (you could even use a point system for good behavior) (1 Corinthians 7:4)
Be sure to let your husband know everything that irritates you (preferably when he walks in the door from work)
The above is definitely not exhaustive
i leave you with :
"... the man she had destroyed was her own husband, who had now left her for another woman. By her own admission, her heart had never really been in her home. She had loved her work more than her family and had failed to fulfill her God-given responsibilities as a wife and mother. Now she was living with the lethal consequences of her foolishness.
'I am the epitome of the foolish woman you described. ..., I've been this foolish, adulterous woman. I now see the tragic consequences ... in my husband and in our marriage. I have also planted these vicious seeds in our precious daughter.
I have emasculated my husband, because of my selfish, arrogant, manipulative, intimidating ways and words. How terribly, terribly wounded he is because of me.
I have taken him down to the very core of Hell itself because of my ungodly, willful ways. Today he took the wife of another man to church with him. How could I have driven such a wonderful man to do such a hideous thing before God?
God help me. I see how wrong I've been. I'm trusting in His Word for healing, cleansing, and restoration of my vile heart.'"
https://www.lifeaction.org/revival-resources/revive/sexual-sin/portrait-foolish-woman/
Other references - key interest point is many are by women
Stronger reproach by men have been omitted ... for now
http://chalcedon.edu/research/articles/the-wise-woman-and-the-foolish-woman/
http://bc4women.blogspot.com/2011/06/foolish-woman.html
http://www.luke173ministries.org/466777
http://proverbs14verse1.blogspot.com/2009/06/foolish-woman-destroys-her-home-by.html
http://www.fnirevival.com/Deliverance%20Sermons/Rebellious%20Wives%20and%20Slacker%20Husbands.pdf
http://www.ucg.org/beyond-today/trustworthiness-in-the-marriage-relationship (para 4 of When your trust has been betrayed is telling)
http://www.thewordout.net/pages/page.asp?page_id=74725
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